Category Archives: Motivation/Inspirational

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Hi there !!

There are a lot of things you want to do but due to some reasons, you’re not able to do them & that’s sad. Regardless of whatever the reasons might be, if you think of something that you really wanna do & it sets your soul on fire, then go for it. Read below the reasons why you should DoItNow(DIN) !! 👇.

Apparently, we all have something that we are passionate about, something that we really want to do, something that we love, something we really want but we do not go for it because you are either scared or don’t believe in yourself. In life, the best thing you can do for you is – believe in yourself. 

If you would love to have a youtube channel but you keep procrastinating about the whole thing, it would never happen unless you DIN(DoItNow)!

If you love dancing and you would to show your talent to the world by making videos but you keep procrastinating about the whole thing, it would never happen unless you DIN(DoItNow).

If you love someone & you feel like y’all should spend the rest of your lives together but you’re shy to say how you feel, the whole thing won’t happen unless you DIN(DoItNow).  Asides everything i’ve stated above, if there’s anything you want to do and you keep dodging away from these things, it won’t happen unless you make a move and the only way you can make a move is to DoItNow(DIN). Imagine sitting in your house twenty years later regretting about  something you should have done. It is not only sad but it’s too late because we are all growing and there are somethings we cannot do as we age.

At the end of the day, all of these things are not easy that is why you have to take things one step at a time. One day, you would  get it all figured out & It’s better than not trying at all. Most importantly, always remember that you should never give up on something you really want because it’s difficult to wait but it’s worse to regret. You really should do what makes your soul happy & don’t wait for time instead do what it does, keep going.     

Later is never so Do it Now(DIN) ! ! !

Best wishes,

Rafiat Olamide Madamidola ♥️

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Hey there! 

We are all a little broken & the last time I checked broken crayons still colour the same! Read below reasons why you should be careful with what you say & also take your time to appreciate people because it would put a smile on their face .

 

Apparently, words have the power to do two things which is heal & hurt! This is one of the reasons why you have to choose what you would say & what not to say.  There are alot of people going through alot in which they do not discuss! The best thing you can do is to be kind with your words & most importantly, how you treat people.

Few weeks ago, I read what someone tweeted! He or she wrote, ‘Sometimes they want to check up on you but they remember that the phone works same way’. What this person is trying to say is that why didn’t the other person call or text since the phone works the same way! As simple as this can be said, it’s the truth but then we should not always conclude because we do not know what the other person is going through.  A simple hi,how’re you ? I just decided to check up on you or send them a random text telling them how much you miss them/appreciate them in your life. All this little things won’t do any harm to you if you do it. Sometimes, we really should drop our ego & do little things if not for anything for the sake of God. 

Also, if you see someone that dresses beautifully or smells nice & you’re wowed, it’s okay to tell them. Many atimes, it is the little help we do for people that makes them smile. No matter how small it is, it would mean alot to people. Always remember that it’s the little things that count the most. 

At the end of the day, If you ever have the chance to PutASmileonSomeone’sface(PASS), do not hesitate to do so. 

     love & light,

     Rafiat O. Madamidola ♥️

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Hey there! It’s a common thing for everyone to get nervous especially when examinations are fast approaching! I’ve written below #theGET to follow. I hope it helps you 🤗.

Apparently, It’s okay to get nervous when it’s close to tests & examinations especially when you’ve not been reading lately. Anyways, it’s not too late to start reading & if you have not started, you can start NOW! Also, nobody is perfect and there are subjects/courses you are not too good at, instead of getting worried about everything you can meet with  someone who knows it better than you do and tell them to explain to you so you can undsrstand better. You do not have to get too nervous to the extent that you start being hard on yourself! take things easy & remember it’s one step at a time. However, I’ve seen people that look really pale during examination periods and all of this is due to the fact that they do not eat well & also get enough sleep. Only a person with good health would collect certificate which means you have to eat well & rest well so that you do not fall sick. You can burn your midnight candle but make sure you rest well enough too.

Everyone knows that, to make an A is not an easy thing but it is possible. Everything is possible for all those who say ‘I will & I can’ i call it the ‘Will Courage’. It is possible this is why you have to spend more time on your books & less time on anything that distracts you easily. Most importantly, make sure you use time wisely.

At the end of the day, you gotta ace all your papers & the only way you can do that is by following theGET !! Study well & do not forget to pray before you read & also pray before you start your examinations. I wish you all the best x

            With love,

             Rafiat Madamidola ❤

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CONFIDENCE

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    “Lacking confidence erodes your self-worth and paralyses your productivity”

                                                 … Kristin Arnold

I was strolling one day in my neighborhood, there, i saw a little boy dancing side by side with a little girl, his sister probably. At the sight of my presence, the little boy stopped dancing, he became so cold and shy but the little girl continued dancing and even smiled at me while I was staring. This made me to wonder and ponder.

Looking back into the past years, I remembered that I was once like the boy. I remembered a day that I was called upon to lead a choreography in my church because I performed best during our rehearsals but I refused because of the fear of facing the congregation.

Another time, I was supposed to act in a stage play in my school as mummy junior, the moment daddy junior who was already on the stage acting called me out(mama junior) to discuss about junior according to the script, I threw up in response to his call.

That was funny right? I couldn’t act any longer.  Though deep within me, I knew I could do it. I felt bad because some else had to act my role.

Another opportunity came, it was a Christmas carol this time in my school, and the girl that ought to lead our songs was a Jehovah witness and her mum refused to allow her join the carol because of her belief. So, I was called to take the role, though so much was not expected from me because of my past failure but I made up my mind to do it. 

Yes, I did it and I didn’t throw up this time. My mum was proud. She saw me perform on stage and she was happy. She had gotten lots of reports and questions from my class teachers asking her if I was deaf or dumb because I usually don’t talk to anyone outside my home.

So as I grow up, I see the need for me to only concentrate on what I have to do and not on the people or what they have to say.

There are two things I discovered as to what may cause of the lack of confidence.  It could either be a problem that originates from within, or induced by external factors such as peers, environment and standard of living. Any of these factors can be worked on to improve ones’ level of confidence.

Lack of confidence erodes your self-worth, it makes you settle for the less, because, you think you can’t be better or do better.  It paralyzes your productivity.  You have virtues and talents embedded in you but, it remains dormant because you are not confident enough to unleash it.  Many are life’s challenges that will require nothing but the confidence to stand up to it and fight.

It’s time you start believing in your ability to do.

Don’t shy away from responsibilities because you think you think you are not capable. Tell yourself you can do it, dream big and make your big dream a reality …CONFIDENCE IS THE KEY!

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